{"id":16077,"date":"2025-12-03T02:18:22","date_gmt":"2025-12-03T02:18:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.metro24.co.id\/?p=16077"},"modified":"2025-12-03T02:18:22","modified_gmt":"2025-12-03T02:18:22","slug":"solusi-keluarga-di-era-perselingkuhan-digital","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.metro24.co.id\/?p=16077","title":{"rendered":"Solusi Keluarga di Era Perselingkuhan Digital"},"content":{"rendered":"

Metro24, SURABAYA<\/strong> -Kasus perselingkuhan digital, hubungan gelap lewat media sosial, hingga keluarga yang dingin tanpa komunikasi semakin marak di masyarakat. Banyak orang berkeluarga tetapi lupa bagaimana caranya menjadi pasangan yang tersisa hanya status.<\/p>\n

Ketika ayah dan bunda saling menjauh, anak menjadi pribadi yang paling terluka.<\/p>\n

Namun luka itu sering tak terdengar, hanya tampak dari perubahan sikap dan emosinya.<\/p>\n

Menurut Ustadz Ruman Nasruddin, M.Pd.I Pembicara Parenting Islami & Konsultan Pembinaan Keluarga Harmonis kepada awak media akar keretakan keluarga modern adalah hilangnya kedekatan spiritual, emosional, dan komunikasi dalam rumah.<\/p>\n

\u201cMendidik anak harus dimulai dari mendidik hubungan ayah dan bunda terlebih dahulu.\u201dujarnya<\/p>\n

Berikut 5 alasan utama kenapa harmoni orangtua merupakan pilar pendidikan anak baik secara psikologis maupun spiritual:<\/p>\n

1\ufe0f\u20e3 Anak Menyerap Energi Rumah Lebih Kuat dari Nasihat<\/p>\n

Anak adalah makhluk dengan sensitivitas emosi sangat tinggi. Mereka membaca raut wajah orangtuanya setiap hari.<\/p>\n

Rumah yang penuh cinta \u2192 membangun mental anak yang percaya dunia ini baik<\/p>\n

Rumah yang penuh konflik \u2192 menanamkan rasa takut tanpa kata-kata<\/p>\n

Inilah sebab utama anak mudah stres meski orangtua mengira \u201cAh, mereka belum paham\u201d.<\/p>\n

2\ufe0f\u20e3 Rumah yang Harmonis Mencegah Anak Mengalami Luka Batin<\/p>\n

Setiap pertengkaran orangtua adalah trauma kecil bagi anak.<\/p>\n

Dampaknya bisa berupa:<\/p>\n

– Mudah marah<\/p>\n

– Sensitif<\/p>\n

– Sulit fokus sekolah<\/p>\n

– Menjadi pembangkang atau justru penakut<\/p>\n

Ketenangan emosional adalah hak dasar seorang anak.<\/p>\n

3\ufe0f\u20e3 Contoh Cinta Ayah-Bunda Menjadi Blueprint Cinta Anak di Masa Depan<\/p>\n

Anak belajar mengasihi dari apa yang ia lihat di rumah, bukan dari apa yang dia dengar di sekolah.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Jika orangtua saling mengkhianati atau saling merendahkan, maka anak akan menganggap itu adalah cinta yang wajar.<\/p>\n

Sebaliknya, ketika ayah dan bunda saling menghormati:<\/p>\n

Anak akan tumbuh dengan standar cinta yang terhormat pula.<\/p>\n

4\ufe0f\u20e3 Pendidikan Lebih Mudah Saat Orangtua Bersatu<\/p>\n

Jika hubungan orangtua renggang, anak sering menjadikan salah satu pihak sebagai pelarian untuk menghindari tanggung jawab.<\/p>\n

Tetapi saat ayah-bunda kompak:<\/p>\n

– Arahan diterima lebih mudah<\/p>\n

– Anak mau terbuka<\/p>\n

– Aturan berjalan dengan rasa aman, bukan ketakutan<\/p>\n

Inilah yang disebut lingkungan pendidikan yang kondusif.<\/p>\n

5\ufe0f\u20e3 Anak Merasa Dicintai Secara Utuh dan Layak Bahagia<\/p>\n

Pengalaman masa kecil menjadi rekaman permanen dalam memori anak.<\/p>\n

Jika yang terekam adalah:<\/p>\n

– Pelukan<\/p>\n

– Senyuman<\/p>\n

– Saling membantu<\/p>\n

Maka tumbuh keyakinan besar : \u201cAku berharga, aku lahir dari cinta yang saling menguatkan.\u201d<\/p>\n

Inilah pondasi kesehatan mental yang tak bisa dibeli.<\/p>\n

Perselingkuhan Bukan Sekadar Dosa: Ia Menghancurkan Generasi<\/p>\n

Pengkhianatan dalam rumah bukan hanya melukai pasangan, tetapi menghilangkan tokoh panutan bagi anak.<\/p>\n

Dari banyak kasus keluarga yang bermasalah, anak cenderung:<\/p>\n

Sulit percaya pada orang<\/p>\n

Takut menikah<\/p>\n

Mengulangi pola yang sama<\/p>\n

Karena itu, Ustadz Ruman menawarkan pendekatan Spiritual Parenting sebagai terapi keluarga:<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Menguatkan iman & kecintaan pada Allah<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Memperbaiki komunikasi suami-istri<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Menghadirkan kembali kehangatan dalam rumah<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Menyembuhkan luka hati ayah dan bunda \u201cKetika cinta kembali kepada Allah, cinta itu lebih mudah kembali pada pasangan dan anak.\u201d<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Kesimpulan Utama<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Harmoni orangtua adalah kurikulum utama pendidikan anak<\/p>\n

Ini lebih penting dari fasilitas sekolah atau prestasi akademik<\/p>\n

Keluarga yang kuat melahirkan generasi yang kuat<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Jaga cinta ayah dan bunda \u2192 maka masa depan anak ikut terjaga.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

(Redho)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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